Today once again Audrey, Nikita, and I updated each other where we are now and what we are working on for the GiT Photo-exhibition project. We have 2 new additions and soon there will be more.😊

2 New Additions: Audio recording of the short text by Nikita; and Traditional Newari Wedding Music from me.

We are now working on the questions (sent by Pennings for getting to know us, spouses, better). Also, we are collecting pictures of items connected to wedding as well as our life in the Netherlands.

Along the process, it was nice going through the wedding pictures and sharing the story connected to them. It was interesting to discuss what red, white, and black colors mean in our cultures. Which is appropriate for a wedding and which is not! We also shared about the small bag or box handed to the wedding guests as a token of appreciation, which usually is a small organza bag or a box filled with nuts and/ or candies.

Thank you, Audrey and Nikita, for the wonderful discussion and planning.


Today we, Audrey, Laura, Nikita and I, updated each other on what we have received so far and discussed what’s next.

So far, we have 6 Wedding Ritual Ppts; received extra pictures from 2 GiT spouses for the exhibition; and one short story which will also have audio later.

What we and anybody interested to be a part of it are going to do in coming days is keep sharing materials. Since the photo-exhibition is more than just about wedding rituals, each one of us is going to share different pictures, stories, texts, and/ or any other things connected to wedding and/or to our journey from our country to Eindhoven, could be audio and/or visual.

For instance, how it was before our move and how it is now; what and how we keep our culture alive; new traditions that entered our life; and such.

We hope to hear from other GiT spouses as well. So, if you are interested, please feel free to join. We still have 2 weeks left to share materials. Also, let us know if you can and would like to help in the preparation process.


Thank you, Audrey Fournier, Nikita and Viviana Gonzalez, for joining in today, and sharing your ideas. Today was a very productive step towards our next step to preparation and planning.🤗🙏

We visited the Pennings Foundation, met Anke, Irma and Maxime from the foundation. They gave us a tour of the space where we will be having our project. Then, together we all explored over the things and ideas that could be incorporated during the Photo-exhibition. For instance, photos on Wedding rituals, displaying something connected to the wedding, recording our story, and others.

And above all, we know the dates for the exhibition now.😊 It will be from 26th of June till 17th of July. So, we have until 14th of May to collect necessary materials from our side. And then we will visit them on 21st of May to discuss further.


Thank you, Audrey Fournier, Advaita Kaul, and Nikita, for giving an extensive productive discussion.🤗🙏

We covered different topics connected to the Photo-exhibition; shared our ideas. Basically created a bit of visualization of it. It was wonderful to hear all those ideas.And it was lovely journeying through the journey with GiT. Happy that we met each other and build up this friendship that plays an important part in our life. Looking forward to building more adventures and memories together. 

Thank you all for sharing the energy.

AGENDA#14, 08 & 09 APRIL

Audrey: Hi ladies! Today with Laura, we went to the Achtse Barrier Park, mostly because it was close to Laura’s new place and she didn’t have the opportunity to explore the area yet. Fortunately, we found a mural !Well, the story behind it is kind of sad, the young man on it, Jano, died at 20 because of a car accident and two of his friends painted this mural in his memory.

Aside of this mural we also saw a small (communal ?) garden and the park itself is very nice and quiet. We discussed about the crazy house market in Eindhoven, about the difficulty to go out to walk or run in winter and about the fact that all the streets around the park are named after places in France (mostly cities but also regions). We went through Angoulêmehof and I told Laura that Angoulême is a city where there is a renowned French comic festival every year.After the beginning of the week with the snow, I was quite low in energy but after our meeting I felt recharged 😊 Thank you Laura!

Nikita: Binda and I met at Primark, near Eindhoven Centraal and walked through Kruisstraat tunnel connecting the Piazza to Kruisstraat. And wow did we stumble upon a landscape of murals, art and history. In fact it took us a good hour to just go through this tunnel, which I have crossed in seconds on a bike several times!

Megha had to help us contact each other in the beginning due to some connectivity issues, and we realised about Megha and Advaita had just visited the area. We tried to click photographs of the opposite wall of the tunnel and hopefully our photos combined will cover the whole tunnel. 😋We talked about our journeys to Eindhoven, cuisines, maternity, travelling and culture of India and Indonesia. Thank you Binda for a great time and a fun meeting!

Advaita: Megha and I met this afternoon and happened to spot snow here and there, both of us were visibily surprised the snow had survived 🤣 this harsh 10 degrees weather. It was fun to catch up after a long time.We realized many of the art works were done in collaboration with design/ art academies of Eindhoven. Nice to get a chance to pause and appreciate the efforts of the artists and talk about what it represents.

It was wonderful to hear how your day went with one another while exploring some mural arts. Thank you, Audrey Fournier, Advaita Kaul, Binda Anissa, Lao Guerrero, and Nikita, for joining in and sending me all those lovely pictures.🤗😘🙏


Today we had our meetup earlier than usual. And wow! We had a very progressive meeting today with Petra and Anke from the Pennings Foundation. We updated over the idea behind the photo-exhibition and the stories we have collected so far. Most importantly, we set a tentative time for our exhibition: End of June this year.

We also decided to meet at the Foundation on Friday, 23rd April to meet each other in person (keeping corona measures in mind) and see the space. In the meantime, we will collect stories, if people would like to share; and brainstorm ideas on what activities to integrate in the exhibition.

Thank you, Audrey, Binda, Laura, and Nikita, for participating today and sharing your ideas.🤗🙏 Happy to say that we are moving forward and looking forward to working together. We will keep each other updated.


Thank you Audrey, Nikita and Binda for sharing about your meetup last week. Happy to hear your stories and share them here.😊

Nikita: We went to the food trucks near Sint Trudokerk. But then we didn’t feel like eating and rode to this park near the former Philips stadium, which also had a boulder for rock climbing. Audrey also showed me around the Strijp-S area and I have to say she knows a lot about Eindhoven. We also talked about how we landed up in Eindhoven and it was nice spending time with her.

Audrey: Hi! We first went to Sint Trudoplein to check the Thursday food trucks (fish truck, chicken truck, cheese truck and Vietnamese truck); we then went to the Evoluon (We forgot to take a pic) and then to the nearby park (Jacob Oppenheimerpark) where we sat for a while. We discussed about Eindhoven, about the corona times of course, and about our hopes that the vaccine will bring an end to it, so that we can enjoy the city life fully. We then went home, with a little detour to Strijp-S (the feel good market square). We also discussed that we felt lazy before meeting each other, but we had a lovely time and agreed that it was worth it 😊

Binda: Hi guys! 🤗 I’ll also share mine! Yesterday for the first time I met someone from GIT and she is.. Megha! We met in a park near Strijp-S in a perfect weather, share some stories and also share chocolate cake.🤩Megha told me about the first time she came to NL and how she adapted here (which I will learn a lot). We also shared stories about our own culture in Nepal and Indonesia. We found that both Nepal and Indonesia have some similar local wisdoms and we are also excited to have our own life here in NL.😊

It’s beautiful to meet someone and share some stories 🥰🥰🥰


Thank you, Audrey Fournier, Binda, and Nikita for joining in today. 🙏 Unfortunately, Petra couldn’t join us. So, our planned meetup turned out to be an unplanned one, which I think we all found a nice opportunity to know each other more.😊

We updated on our Wedding Photo-exhibition Project. And thank you Binda for sharing a bit more about Javanese Royal Wedding. ‘Royal’ has more to do with cultural adaptation than belonging to a royal family.

Then with the topic of weather, we started talking about gardening. And with plant topic on the table, we talked about how it is back home, cheap or expensive, bouquet as common and important as in the Netherlands or not, and plant care. And definitely waiting for weather to get lovely so we can work on plants soon.

It was nice talking to you all and knowing you are doing well.

Crêpes – by Audrey Fournier

There are some people who don’t follow a recipe; they just mix the basic ingredients (flour, egg(s), milk, butter, sometimes also sugar and rum) and add milk until the dough is liquid enough.

I am not part of these people, I need a recipe to follow when I am baking. For years, when I wanted to make crêpes (at least once a year on the 2nd of February for “la chandeleur” (Candlemas), the crêpe day in France), I followed the first recipe I could find on the internet or a recipe given by a friend or a family member. the crêpes were always good but none of these recipes really made outstanding crêpes. I have a small booklet where I write the recipes that I make again and again, and, to write a recipe in it, it has to be “approved” by myself, none of the previously mentioned recipes made it.

However, this chandeleur, I finally found my final crêpe recipe. When I search for a recipe, I always try to find a blog, because, most of the time, the person writing hundreds or thousands of recipes in a blog gives better recipes than Mr or Ms Everybody who writes one recipe in his/her life on Marmiton, 750g or such websites.

Anyway, maybe the recipe I found is not the best recipe for someone else, but it reminds me of my Grandma’s crêpes. She used to make a lot of them and gave them to my father so we could eat them in the evening. Before the end of the meal, my parents would bring some water to boil in a saucepan and put the plate with the crêpes on it to warm them. They were very thin and soft, and so good!!! I made this new recipe without high hopes but when I tried my first crêpe, it all came back to me and I decided that it would be my crêpe recipe from now on. I wrote the recipe in my little booklet, it’s approved !

If you are curious and want to try by yourself, here’s the recipe:

Ingredients (for 2 persons):

300 ml of semi-skimmed milk

1 vanilla stick

50g butter

3 eggs

20g sugar

1 pinch of salt

125g flour

1 teaspoon of rum or orange blossom extract (or aroma)

Put the milk in a saucepan. Cut open the vanilla stick in two and scrape the seeds, put everything in the milk.

Heat the milk (no boiling), add the butter and let cool down.

Beat the eggs and sugar, add the pinch of salt.

Add this mix to the flour then add the filtered milk/butter/vanilla mix while whipping.

Add the rum or the orange blossom extract (or aroma).

If it seems too thick, you can add a bit of milk (it was not needed when I tried the recipe).

Heat your pan and put a knob of butter before cooking the first crêpe.

Pour the dough in the pan in a thin layer (you can watch a video if you are not sure how to do it) and turn the crêpe when the first side is cooked  (it should easily come off the pan at this point). 

You can eat each crêpe as you remove it from the pan or stack them in a plate with aluminium foil on top to keep them warm.

Then you just have to savor them with the topping(s) of your choice: hazelnut paste, powdered or icing sugar, jam, lemon juice and sugar, melted chocolate…

Bitterbal- A Dutch Snack

Singular: Bitterbal; Plural: Bitterballen

After attending few events in the Netherlands, I noticed that no matter what the occasion, I found one sort of Dutch snack present in almost every event. Round, deep fried snack with thick, soft filling: Bitterbal.

Whether at my husband’s former office during Friday Midday gathering (Vrij-Mi-Bo/ Vrijdag Middag Borrel) or at a friend’s graduation or at a Pubquiz, it is there. My husband immediately fell in love with Bitterbal. And when we found the frozen ones at Jumbo, how could we not try it!

Mina Solanki’s piece on Bitterbal, A brief history of the typical Dutch bar snack: The bitterbal (, is an interesting read.